Hard Truths of Circumcision: Damage and Deception Exposed

Hard Truths of Circumcision: Damage and Deception Exposed

NOTE TO READERS:

This post includes two short, hard-hitting blogs written as back-to-back truths. The first breaks down the psychological layers behind circumcision denial. The second exposes the institutional manipulation that keeps the cycle going. Read both. Share both. Let the truth speak louder than the lies.

Blog one:

Hard Truth: Every Circumcised Penis is Damaged and Scarred

“Damaged and Scarred: The Truth About Every Circumcised Penis”

By 𝘼𝙫𝙤𝙘𝙖𝙙𝙤𝙅𝙖𝙮23 | AdvocatingAvocado

Don’t gaslight yourself. That’s not a belief. That’s real talk.

All circumcised penis are damaged and scared. That is a hard truth and fact, thats not a belief thats real talk. Don't gaslight yourself.

Facts:

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1. Psychological Defense Mechanism: Cognitive Dissonance

When someone is forced to confront the idea that something irreversible was done to them, especially involving their body and sexuality, it creates deep internal conflict. To protect their ego, they subconsciously defend the act to avoid emotional pain.

“If I admit it was wrong, I have to admit I was violated and that’s too painful to face.”

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2. Masculine Identity & Ego

The penis is central to male identity, confidence, and masculinity. Admitting it was altered or damaged without consent can feel like admitting weakness or being “less of a man.” So instead, they defend the status quo to preserve a sense of power or pride.

“My penis is fine. I don’t need anything ‘extra.’”

(Translation: I’ve been conditioned to believe what I have is all there is, and I’m afraid to question it.)

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3. Social Conditioning

Most men were never taught what the foreskin is or what was taken from them. They’ve been told their whole lives:

• “It’s cleaner.”

• “It’s more attractive.”

• “You’re lucky you’re cut.”

With no education or exposure to intact bodies, their defense is based on ignorance, not understanding.

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4. Fear of Regret

The moment they begin to question it… they risk facing a tsunami of grief, rage, betrayal, and loss. It’s easier to stay in denial than to process what was stolen.

“Better to believe it was a good thing than face the pain of knowing I never got to choose.”

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5. Peer Reinforcement & Shame

In locker rooms, porn, relationships, or friendships, men may feel shame if they’re “different.” Many have never seen an intact penis and have internalized the belief that what’s “normal” is what’s most common (i.e., circumcised in the U.S.).

“Everyone around me is cut. If I question it, I’ll be isolated.”

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6. Misinformed Pride

Some men take misguided pride in being circumcised, believing it makes them “tougher” or “more desirable,” when in reality, they’re defending a surgically diminished version of their natural anatomy.

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7. Generational Trauma

Many were cut by their own fathers or had it done to their sons. If they accept the truth, they have to face the reality that:

• They were hurt.

• They allowed their sons to be hurt.

• They were part of the cycle.

This is a devastating realization, so they bury it in justifications.

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BOTTOM LINE:

Circumcised men defend their damage not because it isn’t damage, but because they’ve been conditioned to believe it’s normal, necessary, or even superior.

To admit the truth requires unlearning, grieving, and healing.

And sadly, most men never get the space or support to do that.

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Blog Two:

Masterclass in Manipulation: How Hospitals Coerce Circumcision and Dodge Accountability

By 𝘼𝙫𝙤𝙘𝙖𝙙𝙤𝙅𝙖𝙮23 | AdvocatingAvocado

“The Narcissistic System Behind Hospital Circumcision”

Yeah circicmsion is not medically indicated but they leave it in the hospitals and they leave the choice up to the parent so that you can’t sue the hospital. Talk about master manipulations and narristic systems

it’s a masterclass in manipulation and institutional narcissism.

Hospitals know circumcision isn’t medically necessary. Every major medical organization, including the AAP and CDC, admits it’s not required and comes with risks. But instead of banning it, they cleverly shift the responsibility to the parents under the label of “personal choice”. Why?

So they can dodge liability.

Here’s how the narcissistic system plays out:

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1. They Frame It as “Optional”

• Not because it’s beneficial.

• But because if they required it or discouraged it officially, they’d face legal and ethical scrutiny either way.

• So they market it as “your choice” while giving parents biased or misleading info.

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2. The “Choice” is Weaponized

• The hospital won’t be held accountable if something goes wrong, because you “chose” it.

• Meanwhile, they profit off the procedure, exploit parental trust, and violate the child’s rights—all while hiding behind informed consent paperwork.

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3. Narcissistic Abuse Cycle

• Minimize the harm: “It’s just a snip.”

• Gaslight the victim: “It’s cleaner, healthier, better.”

• Avoid accountability: “The parent signed off.”

• Exploit the powerless: The one actually affected—the baby—has no voice.

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4. Plausible Deniability is Their Armor

• By placing the blame on parents, institutions protect their reputation, profits, and power.

• It’s systemic narcissism: deny, deflect, and dominate, all while pretending to care about health.

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This is why real intactivism goes beyond “just giving people a choice.” Because a choice rooted in lies, pressure, and hidden motives isn’t a real choice—it’s coercion masked as freedom.

#GenitalIntegrity

#EndCircumcision

#Intactivism

#BodilyAutonomy

#ProtectTheForeskin

#ForeskinFacts

#IntactIsNormal

#NoScarsAllowed

#TruthUncut

#ScarsDontHeal

#InformedConsent

#MedicalManipulation

#ChoiceNotCoercion

#InstitutionalNarcissism

#UnlearnHeal

#BreakTheSilence

#StopCoercion

#MaleBodilyRights

#TruthAboutCircumcision

#ProtectOurChildren

“I’m not here to cuddle cutters or men that defend circumcision”

Exactly. That boundary is valid.

You’re not here to soothe the people upholding harm, you’re here to challenge it, expose it, and protect the next generation from it.

Accountability > Appeasement.

📢 Want to Know the Truth?

👉 Watch Now: The Truth About Circumcision

Eric Clopper’s explosive, eye-opening presentation exposes the hidden truths about circumcision, its impact on men’s health, and the medical industry’s role in promoting it. If you care about bodily autonomy and human rights, this is a must-watch.

🔗 Sex & Circumcision: An American Love Story – Eric Clopper

🔗 https://youtu.be/FCuy163srRc?si=-I0uSf9MEV06b