Why I Write About Intactivism and Advocate for Bodily Autonomy

Why I Write About Intactivism and Advocate for Bodily Autonomy


Written By: ✌️💚🥑🍌 AvocadoJay23 | AdvocatingAvocado


I often get asked, “Why do you write about this?” or “Why did you become an intactivist?” The answer is deeply personal, and while I won’t share everything, I will say this—this issue is real, and it affects countless men in ways society rarely acknowledges.


The Hidden Pain of Circumcision: Stories No One Talks About

As a teenager, I started encountering men who had been circumcised and were struggling with profound emotional pain. Some were suicidal, depressed, and burdened by a sense of loss they never chose. These weren’t just rare cases—they were real people, living with trauma that was never fully addressed.

Many of them suffered from botched circumcisions, excessive tightness, painful erections, loss of sensitivity, or other complications. But they couldn’t talk to their parents about it. They couldn’t get medical help because doctors often dismissed their concerns. They felt silenced—as if their voices didn’t matter because the damage was already done.


A Lifelong Burden for Many Circumcised Men

For some men, circumcision is not just a medical procedure—it’s a lifelong burden.

• Some feel incomplete, as if a part of their masculinity was taken from them before they ever had a choice.

• Some deal with physical pain and sexual dysfunction, a result of circumcision being performed too tight, leaving no slack skin for comfort.

• Many struggle emotionally, realizing later in life what was taken from them, often leading to resentment, anger, or even depression.

This isn’t about “preference” or “cultural norms.” This is about bodily autonomy and the right to make choices about one’s own body.


Foreskin Restoration: A Path to Healing

For those who are struggling with the effects of circumcision, there is hope. Foreskin restoration is a process that allows men to regain some of what was lost—both physically and emotionally.

Manual foreskin restoration can help improve comfort, sensitivity, and self-esteem for many men. If you’re looking for resources, here are some organizations and communities dedicated to helping:

🔗 RestoringForeskin.org – A comprehensive guide on restoration methods.

🔗 r/Foreskin_Restoration on Reddit – A supportive community for men restoring.

🔗 Norm.org – An organization supporting men through foreskin restoration.

📺 Watch: 🔗 Welcome to the Foreskin Revolution – Mini-Documentary & Stories

🔗 https://youtu.be/tQ9q8L6-lNg?si=1mr8seOP9RhwXxae

“Welcome to the Foreskin Revolution”, which is a mini-documentary featuring stories about foreskin restoration and circumcision regret. It provides firsthand accounts from men who have undergone restoration and discusses the movement advocating for genital autonomy.


Why I Speak Up & Why This Matters

This is why I write about intactivism. Because men’s pain matters. Because the conversation around circumcision has been one-sided for too long.

For every person who tells me to “just get over it,” there’s another who privately reaches out, saying, “Thank you for speaking up. I’ve been suffering in silence for years.”

I won’t stop writing about this. Because men deserve bodily autonomy, choice, and the ability to heal.

If this post resonates with you, share it. Start the conversation. You never know who might be silently struggling, waiting for someone to acknowledge their pain.


“Men’s Pain Matters. Bodily Autonomy Matters. Speak Up, Heal, Restore.”

🎥 Watch & Learn: Educating on Male Anatomy, Foreskin, & Awareness

My YouTube channel playlist is dedicated to educating and raising awareness about male anatomy, the foreskin’s natural functions, and the importance of bodily autonomy. Whether you’re an intactivist or simply looking to learn more, my videos provide valuable insights on this critical topic.

🔗 Watch here: https://youtube.com/@avocadojay23?si=bYd9DH03dbW1F9ho

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📢 Want to Know the Truth?

👉 Watch Now: The Truth About Circumcision

Eric Clopper’s explosive, eye-opening presentation exposes the hidden truths about circumcision, its impact on men’s health, and the medical industry’s role in promoting it. If you care about bodily autonomy and human rights, this is a must-watch.

🔗 Sex & Circumcision: An American Love Story – Eric Clopper

🔗 https://youtu.be/FCuy163srRc?si=-I0uSf9MEV06bvY9

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Before You Go… Watch This

Further Reading & Eye-Opening Truth

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📢 Want to Know the Truth?

👉 Watch Now: The Truth About Circumcision

Eric Clopper’s explosive, eye-opening presentation exposes the hidden truths about circumcision, its impact on men’s health, and the medical industry’s role in promoting it. If you care about bodily autonomy and human rights, this is a must-watch.


🎥 Sex & Circumcision: An American Love Story – Eric Clopper

🔗 https://youtu.be/FCuy163srRc?si=-I0uSf9MEV06bvY9


📖🔗 My intactivist blog by 🥑J23

http://avocadojay23.blogspot.com/


🎥 Watch & Learn: Educating on Male Anatomy, Foreskin, & Awareness

My YouTube channel playlist is dedicated to educating and raising awareness about male anatomy, the foreskin’s natural functions, and the importance of bodily autonomy. Whether you’re an intactivist or simply looking to learn more, my videos provide valuable insights on this critical topic.


🎥 Watch here: 

🔗 https://youtube.com/@avocadojay23?si=bYd9DH03dbW1F9ho

📌 Subscribe to stay informed and help spread awareness!

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